benefits - Single Parent Pessimist https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk Experiences of a Single Mum Attempting to Find a Positive Approach to Life Sat, 10 Jul 2021 22:37:44 +0000 en-GB hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.4 https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/cropped-29366232_826313014243537_8143307492714086400_o-1.jpg benefits - Single Parent Pessimist https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk 32 32 CSA Charging Single Parents to Claim Maintenance: Sign the Petition to STOP THIS! https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk/csa-charging-single-parents-to-clai/ https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk/csa-charging-single-parents-to-clai/#comments Fri, 29 Nov 2013 21:58:00 +0000 http://test.singleparentpessimist.co.uk/2013/11/29/csa-charging-single-parents-to-clai/ It’s hard enough trying to cope with your ex not financially supporting your child, and there’s even more stress when having to use the CSA to try and get this money from them, but now the government want to charge us single parents for doing this! Lots of single parents rely on the Child Support Agency (which is changing it’s name to the Child Maintenance Service) to get their ex-partners to pay money towards their child. I’m struggling to provide for my son; I work, but childcare costs make it difficult to pay the bills, but I have no other choice. His ‘father’ is choosing not to work currently (unless it’s cash in hand work), and refuses to pay a penny towards him. I went to the CSA in a bid to try and get some money and all I get is £2.50 per week! This doesnt even buy a packet of nappies! So now the government want to charge me for receiving this pittance?! Single parents will be made to pay a one-off fee of £20 for approaching the CMS, and they will then take a 4% cut of all maintenance given. This is despite the fact that single parents who use the service will be doing so out of NECESSITY! The only parents exempt from the £20 fee are those who had abusive partners, but they still have to pay the 4% everytime they are paid. Single parent organisation Gingerbread want to stop these ridiculous charges, so have set up a petition which they will be taking to the government. If you’re against this as I am, please get your friends and family to sign the petition ASAP! Click here to sign it now. Follow @vampybear !function(d,s,id){var js,fjs=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0],p=/^http:/.test(d.location)?’http’:’https’;if(!d.getElementById(id)){js=d.createElement(s);js.id=id;js.src=p+’://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js’;fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js,fjs);}}(document, ‘script’, ‘twitter-wjs’);

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Returning to work (sorry the PAID kind!) https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk/returning-to-work-sorry-paid-kind/ https://singleparentpessimist.co.uk/returning-to-work-sorry-paid-kind/#respond Mon, 06 May 2013 19:27:00 +0000 http://test.singleparentpessimist.co.uk/2013/05/06/returning-to-work-sorry-paid-kind/ Tomorrow I return to work after having a year of no money, but that precious thing we call ‘time’ with my boy. Now I will have less time with my boy and even LESS money- don’t you just love how our government work?! If I rented then I could stay off work and claim housing benefit that would cover my rent in full, plus council tax benefits, income support and child tax credits. But no, I tried to do the right thing (that’s how I was brought up unlike a lot of my generation), so I worked my butt off by working during Uni so I could fund my own degree, after trying to save every penny I could since I was 16 years old for a deposit (I was on £3.31 per hour in my first job!) before getting a ridiculously high mortgage on a ridiculously small flat. Still it is my flat that I worked bloody hard for, without any help from a bloke- WOMEN RULE! And what thanks do us adults who do the right thing get from the government? Well, we have to stay in work and not get to look after our children, because the benefits you get to help with mortgages only covers the measly interest part of the repayments! I wanted to spend as much time with my boy as I could for the first 3 years of his life, but now I can’t. What’s worse is there aren’t even any benefits or extra help for us single parents who receive nothing, or pittance, from the so-called fathers, which makes it even harder to live off the wage. I’ve reduced my hours, because childcare is SO EXPENSIVE, and because I want to parent my child (that’s why I decided to have a baby in the first place lol), but at the same time, I’m lowering wages that already were tight when it came to bills so this will be fun! But hey ho, I may be struggling, but at least my boy will grow up watching his only parent work her butt off, so he aspires to work hard rather than sit around all day, skanking off all us taxpayers. My main worry is how the hell I am going to divide work mode with parent mode during each week, and attempt to get this ever-decreasing memory back on track! Any tips of juggling worklife with your children would be much appreciated lol. Even now I should be preparing his lunch and bag for tomorrow as well as my own, plus lay out our outfits, wash up and make sure I set an alarm (oh I haven’t missed bloody alarm clocks- my boy is the earliest alarm clock I’ve ever had!) and I’ve got to hope and pray he sleeps through so I might actually be less of a zombie on my first day back. Wish me luck…

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