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    DIY/ Upcycling: Decoupaging Vases

    13th August 2015

    I’m very new to decoupage, which is basically decorating things using ripped napkins, paper, wallpaper just like we did at school! However this is much more intricate and beautiful when done right, which is why I am still very much a beginner! I bought some vases and candles from a 99p store and used napkins…

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    DIY/ Upcycling: Chunk’s Dinosaur Bedside Table

    29th April 2015

    Yes I’ve been at it again! Chunk has a bedside table that I was given a while back that he uses to put toys, books and his toy cash register on. It was very bland so I decided to get some wallpaper samples to liven it up. Chunk is a dinosaur-obsessed boy and has been…

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    Upcycling: Spiderman Chest of Drawers

    24th February 2015

    As you may remember a little while ago I upcycled some chest of drawers using Marvel Comic characters for Chunk, and I’ve finally gotten around to upcycling his other set. This time I focussed solely on Spiderman, because Chunk is quite into this character at the moment. It was quite easy, all I needed was…

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    DIY/ Upcycling: Sink Storage Unit

    1st January 2015

    When I got home one evening this week I noticed someone had left an under the sink storage unit next to the communal bin, so I saw a prime opportunity to do some more upcycling! It was a light wood colour, but also had a green tinge, so it was definitely in need of a…

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    Creative Halloween Ideas: Decoupage Halloween Candles

    13th October 2014

    I’ve started to get the DIY and creative bug lately, making Marvel Comic chest of drawers and revamping coffee tables, and now I’ve started to find creative Halloween ideas.

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    DIY / Upcycling: My Small Hallway Table (Rustoleum)

    4th October 2014

    Upcycling some chest of drawers for Chunk last week with Rustoleum products has really inspired me to carry on upcycling other furniture in our home . I’ve already completed another project in just a couple of evenings whilst watching my soaps and thought I would show you! I have a small table in my hallway…

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    DIY/ UPCYCLING: Revamping Old Chest of Drawers Inspired by Marvel

    1st October 2014

    One of the things that has caught my eye recently is upcycling furniture using chalk paint, and also using napkins or wallpaper to decoupage. I’ve learnt quite a bit about what are the better ways to do these things from the thousands of people who have posted their projects on the groups and by watching…

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    DIY / UPCYCLING: Mending My Toddler-Destroyed Headboard

    27th September 2014

    I’m still astounded by the damage and chaos a tiny toddler can cause within a matter of minutes seconds. Chunk was sitting on my bed quite peacefully and happily playing on his tablet and reading some books whilst I was hoovering the room, so I thought it was safe to run the hoover around the spare…

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Hiya, I'm Claire..

Mum of one, step mum of two and dog mum to Yogi. A veg-growing, food-loving, trashy TV addict. I write openly about life, parenting and my quest to be healthier in mind, body and bank balance. Now a bride to be!

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💔Openly grieving my Partner & Mum

The school term has started and we lost my mum and The school term has started and we lost my mum and partner in the school holidays so its triggering to enter the old routines when they were alive
#griefawareness #griefhealing
Been a really bad two days so finally able to post Been a really bad two days so finally able to post a little about it
#griefdiary #grievingheart #widowlife
Today was so hard my love. 6 weeks ago today we lo Today was so hard my love. 6 weeks ago today we lost you, and seeing you in a casket was heartbreaking. 

I thought we'd have years before one of us had to say goodbye, you will be forever young.

I did many things to feel closer to you and will keep doing these things until I hopefully see you again.

Please never leave me. I promise to try to rebuild myself and carry on for you, with you in my heart and soul for the sake of those 3 beautiful children we have between us. 

I cant and wont say goodbye to you, instead I will say until we meet again my soulmate, and just hope that we truly will.

Thank you for loving me and letting me love you in a way I've never experienced for those 7 and a half beautiful years.

I hope you're with my mum and our family keeping us left behind protected and safe.

Forever yours x

#grievingwidow #grieveoutloud
Finally tried to listen to our playlist on the day Finally tried to listen to our playlist on the day of the funeral
#grievingwidow #grievingprocess
Managing to achieve actual work for the first time Managing to achieve actual work for the first time since they both have passed
#griefjournal #griefsupport
All the little losses on top of the grief #grievin All the little losses on top of the grief
#grievingwidow #grievingdaughter #grieveoutloud
How do we try to make friends with our grief? #gr How do we try to make friends with our grief? 
#grievingheart #grievingsucks
Failing at the small stuff so how can i do the big Failing at the small stuff so how can i do the bigger stuff?
#griefjourney #griefdiary
Anyone else struggling with the current emmerdale Anyone else struggling with the current emmerdale storyline of two people losing their partners at once? Or is it just me?
#grieveoutloud #grievingheart
The mornings arent getting any easier. Bleak is th The mornings arent getting any easier. Bleak is the word of the week.
#grievingheart #grievingdaughter #grievingpartner
For National Grief Awareness Day I thought id give For National Grief Awareness Day I thought id give an insight into a typical day for me at the moment at the start of my grief journey.
Lost my mum 7 weeks ago after a long, painful end of life process, and then lost my partner without any warning 12 days later. 
Im in acute grief stages, mixed with trauma from having two deaths and one being sudden, so it might differ from other people's experience of losing one person at a time.
If this or my many tearful reels in my darkest days help anyone, then it was worth it. 
#nationalgriefawarenessday #griefawareness
I did a new thing today even though I didnt want t I did a new thing today even though I didnt want to, and hope I made them proud.
#grievingheart #grievingpartner
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